LOOK AT YOURSELF NOW

“Long but worthy a read and a share for all my friends out there because it carries a lot of sense”

Now look at yourself! You’re pretending that you're fine but seriously you aren’t. You go to work, you visit friends, you go to the beach, clubs, cinema, gym… you participate in all the spots activities you know, you play all the games on your computer and phone, you go to school, campus, church, you watch movies, you make yourself busy with your phone by calling friends, playing games and logging onto Facebook, you chat with friends, update your status but you are not happy at heart. You’re hurting depressed, disappointed and hurting inside. You laugh out loud and pretend that you're dandy but something is eating you up inside. You have wounds at heart. Every day that goes by you try to be strong but there's some force that is making you get weak, You try to fight it but all in vain. It keeps on enlarging the scars you have at heart. You tell your friends and family that you are fine but seriously you aren't.

Everything you look at, the music that plays on your radio, on your laptop, iPod, phone... Just reminds you of that person who is no longer part of your life, The snaps h/she gave you, the gifts… all just reminds you of that person who left you with no clear explanation, The places you pass by when you are going for work and studies all just reminds you of him/her because you would stop by in them in the evening hours and have some good time.

Now your life is so hard, you’re trying to forget that person, to live your life, Your brain is telling you that you will find someone better but your heart is telling you that h/she will never be like that person. H/she won’t be with the same loving heart like HIS/HERS. Now you’re confused, you don’t know what to do because you can’t do without that person who made you realize what TRUE LOVE is however much you try to pretend. You meet new stylish dudes and babes but they don’t make you feel special like how that person did. You’re trying to love someone else but things aren’t the same, you don’t have feelings for him or her. You’re just forcing your heart that’s why things aren’t working out. Your heart belongs to that special person you left or who left you. Seriously you miss that person so much; you miss his/her jokes, dances, smooches, touches, messages, calls, voice… H/she taught you how to love, to be faithful, caring, patient, hardworking but s/he is no more. H/she would speak right to your heart, would make you feel special, was your everything but now you are all alone. He isn’t part of you. She is not yours now…( Sometimes you log onto Facebook hoping to find at least a poke, a message, or a like on your status from them, You pray at least one day you get a text or a beep on your phone from them but all in vain. :(

But I tell you what my friends, that’s what love does and we can’t escape it. It was meant to be for everyone. No one who will never be hurt, you’re in a good relationship right now but one day you will also be heart broken. That is the process of love, today you’re happy, and praising your man or woman but time will come and you will see him or her as a stranger. I am not saying you decrease the love, just be careful ready for everything. If you are heart broken right now, please be strong, you will raise up again, I know right now you hate love because of all that you’re going through or what you went through but you will love again one day, someone will come into your life and makes you realize why you separated with your Ex. You won’t be single forever; the best is in your way. Don’t feel so low coz that is not the end of your love story. You got to play another crucial part which will be you last. And if you still have hope to get back to your Ex don’t lose it, just give it time. If you still have a chance of asking for forgiveness because of the wrongs or mistakes you did please do because it’s never too late for you, if you apologized and you weren’t forgiven then relax and give it time. If h/she was meant to be yours, trust me he or she will be no matter how many years go by. If you’re the one that h/she apologized to but you refused to FORGIVE that person, please think twice and you forgive him or her no matter you will never accept that person back in your life. Remember you are also not perfect; you may also go wrong somewhere one day. How will it feel when you are not forgiven?
Last but not the least, Please when you happen to fall in love again, Love, hope and trust but NOT TOO MUCH, because that TOO MUCH will HURT you SO MUCH one day.